[antonia123]

My girlfriend recently snogged this idiot and now regrets it and wants to stay going out but she admits she has feelings for this guy! I have forgiven her and we are agreed to sort things out and chat but I don't want to lose her as she is my world and life!! I feel so much like if I lose her its over for me and I strongly am thinking of suicide no joke! Help I need some adive! What do I do I still love her and don't want to break up at all!! :( :confused:

[AW805]

First, I don't want to sound harsh. But no one or nothing is worth killing yourself over. You need to straighten yourself out and if you have forgiving her then move forward. If you are paranoid that she might "snog" someone else - well that just might happen to be honest - you need to be prepared for that. Please talk to a professional about this. Killing yourself over the loss of someone is really serious.

[lmnotok]

Hey bro, don't be insane! If you suicide, you will a ghost seeing her having fun with that bastard. Isn't it more painful?? Only your family will cry over you but soon they will forget you, isn't it a waste?
Be strong, man. A professor told me once in the past that "human at the time of divorcing/breakup, losing child, house burning,..etc.. NEVER thought they can overcome it but strangely, they STILL GET OVER IT completely". So his advice is to divide time into smaller piece like : asking yourself "am i ok today?" if the answer is YES, then it's a good sign. After that keep asking yourself " will i be ok in 5 days ahead?"... yep, something like that. ANd soon you will be OK, I believe!
Goodluck and never think of killing yourself

[Bluerose]

"my girlfriend recently snogged this idiot and now regrets it and wants to stay goin out but she admits she has feelings for this guy! i have forgiven her and we are agreed to sort things out and chat but i dnt want to lose her as she is my world and life!!! i feel so much like if i lose her its over for me and i strongly am thinking of suicide no joke! help i need some adive!! what do i do i still love her and dnt want to break up at all!!!"

I wish you could hear yourself. Get over it and get on with your life - with or without her.

Are suicide threats going to be your answer for everything that goes wrong in your life? I hope not cause it gets old pretty quick.

My dad committed suicide. You should spare a thought for your poor family. And how do you think your girlfriend would feel then? It could ruin her whole life!

[jillygirl524]

Give yourself time, everything will work itself out. Suicide is not a good idea at all. It sounds like your girlfriend may just be unsure and need sometime to think on her own. It will be fine