[Trapperkeeper]

Well I posted something about her earlier. She has been getting very upset with me not wanting to be with her again. Why should I all she did was lie about her new boy friend. I think she was setting up a back up plan if me and her did not work out. I still love her always will but I don't want to get back with her. I have a new girlfriend that is great. I just want to know how to get this old girl out of my hair. She can't handle a friendship I know I can. She can't deal with the fact that I don't want her. She also hates it that I found someone new to be with. It makes her sick. If I don't pick up the phone she calls me more. If I tell her that I don't want her it makes her cry. If I am nice to her it gives her false hopes of me wanting her back. I tell her look you have a man be with him and stop coming to me. She tells me that he gives her none of his time. I don't know how to handle her. I have tried everything. Lol Please give me some advice.

[fredg]

Hi,
If you don't pick up the phone, she calls you more??
This is a game... give it some time, and she will "get the message".
Don't answer the phone when she calls, or if you don't know it's her, then answer the phone... then simply hang up... without saying anything.
If the phone rings right back, don't answer it.
She will soon get the message that it's over.
You can't be "good friends" with someone like this; not right now anyway.
Best of luck,
fredg