[sypher373]

Tugman, you seem to treat this like a joke. I find it hard to believe that you are as upset as you say you are when you treat it like a game...

[tugman_1]

He is not ready for a baby and he is running for the hills. He feels he is to young to be tied down with a family.

HE IS 23

[sypher373]

HE IS 23

Im 20 and wouldn't want a kid for at least 10 years

[tugman_1]

tugman, you seem to treat this like a joke. I find it hard to believe that you are as upset as you say you are when you treat it like a game.....

I'm not treating this like a game because its not a game...

[tugman_1]

Im 20 and wouldnt want a kid for at least 10 years

OK I understeand that but everybody is not the same some people want to have a baby when there not to old much...

[J_9]

Well, maybe he is that somebody that is not ready for a baby yet.

[saraispiel19]

He obviously got spooked he mαde the excuse (mαy be true) to enlist in the αrmy αnd 'study'

[sypher373]

All of the arguing aside,

To address your original question: What can you do to get your ex-boyfriend back...

There is nothing you can do to make him come back. The best thing that you can do is move on and work on being happy with yourself. Once you don't feel like you need him to live, or that your life is less fulfilling/valuable without him, you will be in a much better state of mind.

If he comes back, it will be of his own free-will, not of anything you have done. Try to keep busy and work on yourself for the time being, so that when life throws something at you down the road, you are better equipped to deal with it.

Best of luck

[talaniman]

HE IS 23

He obviously wants to do something else with his life right now and no one but him can decide what that is or make him be with some one. He has made his choice and you must accept it.

[tugman_1]

Sometimes when you love some one, the best thing is to set them free.

BS