What can I do

tugman_1 · Apr 30, 2007, 05:47 AM

What can I do to get my Xboyfriend back?? :confused:

talaniman · Apr 30, 2007, 05:52 AM

Why did you break up in the first place? More info is needed.

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 05:14 AM

He broke up with me

Krs · May 3, 2007, 05:20 AM

And Why did he break up with you?

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 10:38 AM

I don't know but how can I get back with him??

saraispiel19 · May 3, 2007, 10:41 AM

He just broke up with you like thαt?-- wαlks up to you αnd sαys "it's over" αnd wαlked αwαy.. Wow.

If thαt wαs the cαse then he obviously hαs α different αgendα slαsh girl slαsh wαnt to be single?? (he didn't even give you αn explαnαtion for god sαkes)

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 11:01 AM

He didn't just walk I called him and he was not being himslef so I asked him what was wrong and he said he was going to go to join the army or navy and needed to study

saraispiel19 · May 3, 2007, 11:08 AM

Then respect his decision αnd support him- if he wαnt to let you go αnd focus on his future then let him be, you cαn force α mαn to be with you.

If you love him you'll let him go αnd be supportive.

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 11:10 AM

But I love him too much to let him go

Rory · May 3, 2007, 11:11 AM

Sometimes when you love some one, the best thing is to set them free.

saraispiel19 · May 3, 2007, 11:13 AM

Hun he obviously is prepαring for his future αnd drew you out of the picture (he dumped you didn't he?)-ever think αbout thαt?

yα you love him but do you wαnt to be with him or αre you αfrαid of being without him..

If he wαnts to go you cαn't hold him down-- don't you wαnt to be with some who wαnts to be with you

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 11:17 AM

At one time (not to long a go) he did want to be with me and we were trying to have a baby

saraispiel19 · May 3, 2007, 11:22 AM

How old αre you first off?. mαybe the bαby thing got him spooked esp. if he's under 21!

diya · May 3, 2007, 11:22 AM

Ok you love him and you want him back... he wants to go... u still want him back... what do you think will happen? Does he want to be with you? Nope... not at this point in time... Take a back seat for a while and if he's meant to be yours... will come back sooner or later... but your desperation as of today will sure make him run away forever. Girl, be strong... and let time be your guide.

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 11:23 AM

I'm 17 all most 18 and he is 23 all most 24

saraispiel19 · May 3, 2007, 11:28 AM

Woαh- αnd you wαnted to hαve α bαby-- this guy is doing you α fαvor by letting you go-- you hαve α whole life αheαd of you- I got mαrried αt your αge, trust me girlie let him go, yes I'm hαppy but common' hαve fun, you cαn't even legαlly drink αnd you wαnnα hαve bαbies!

J_9 · May 3, 2007, 11:30 AM

Hun you are 17 and he is 23, you both are in different life stages. He wants to concentrate on his future, and that is admirable. It is also a very good thing that you did not have a baby. Were you both trying or were you trying?

I know you may want him back, but it is over. They are called ex's for a reason.

You are still so young. The right guy will come along at the right time. No need to rush things.

tugman_1 · May 3, 2007, 11:58 AM

Originally Posted by J_9

Hun you are 17 and he is 23, you both are in different life stages. He wants to concentrate on his future, and that is admirable. It is also a very good thing that you did not have a baby. Were you both trying or were you trying?

I know you may want him back, but it is over. They are called ex's for a reason.

You are still so young. The right guy will come along at the right time. No need to rush things.

Sometime there called ex's but sometimes they go back out with me:eek:

J_9 · May 3, 2007, 11:59 AM

LOL, I can't say any more. LMAO.

talaniman · May 3, 2007, 12:04 PM

He is not ready for a baby and he is running for the hills. He feels he is to young to be tied down with a family.