[helpme1987]

I just recently lost my girlfriend who I love so very much. She has been under a lot of stress with taking care of her 2month old twin boys, working full-time and going to school. She lost her twins in a custody battle and that's taken a toll on her.She's getting them back soon though. I screwed up by talking to someone on myspace and flirting sort of with that person. I was just being myself and the flirting never meant anything because I love my ex with all my heart. I also messaged a friend of mine saying that I'm not single I'm just trying to get my ex's attention and I hope things work out between me and my ex but I'm going to keep my options open. I also lied about the whole thing. I know what I did was wrong and I'm trying so hard to get her back. She keeps telling me she doesn't want to deal with this and just wants to be friends.I feel that she's just mad and hurt by the whole thing and that mixed with all the stress in her life is pretty much basing her decisions. I love this girl with all my heart and I want so bad to get her back.It's hard being without her.We had talked about marriage and everything.It was very serious. What should I do?

[JoeCanada76]

Do absolutely nothing.

Nothing at all.

You want something so bad, guess what will end up happening. Drive her further away. How do you get her back you give her, her own time and space.

There is no guarantee.
Just leave it alone.

Joe

[talaniman]

Accept this is over, and leave her alone. You messed up, and broke the trust. No amount of begging and pleading, will change her mind, so remember the mistake and learn, and don't go that way again. Move on.