[lost??]

My girlfriend's been acting weird lately and its driving me nuts. She's in college but doesn't want to be. My advice to her was to stick it out and that's what her parents said too because shed be better off for it in the long run. She sstressed out between school and work and takes it out on me. I've tried every time to be supportive but it never works. She doesn't feel like going places anymore and says she never has fun. We broke up and I asked her if that's what she really wanted and she said no so we stayed together. Sometimes when I'm over her place shell tell me to leave and then when I go to she calls me back so I stay and tell her to grow up. She's acting very childish. Honestly I don't want to break up but I don't want to be in a relationship like this. We used to be really happy together and I want it to go back to that. I think she's scared because she knows I am willing to walk away and if this keeps up its what I am going to do. We have problems because whenever something ever comes up I try to talk it out but she just don't want to and tells me to drop it. What do I say to her? Should I just walk away and tell her to grow up? Think the relationship is beyond saving? I know I sound negative but I'm trying to be realistic, this kind of sounds like an end of a relationship to me

[Rina _4]

When it comes to relationship we all have to work hard to make them work. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship and if you care enough and want to work it out then you will find a way, nothing is impossible you just need to adjust your attitude and learn to listen and communicate. It's all up to you, are you willing to try to save this relationship?

[talaniman]

this kind of sounds like an end of a relationship to me

Hope it was fun because I think you both don't have enough communication skills to make this work, and I think you should move on and work on yourselves.