[Hannah78]

When I was 14 and 15 yrs old I had a guy friend that I was as close with but was not yet aloud to date. He would put his hand(s) down whatever pants I was wearing, I’d neither say or no or yes. It simply wasn’t discussed but I would pull his hand away in certain circumstances or try to space myself so it wasn’t possible for him to do. He assumed I enjoyed it due to the reaction I had some of the time, I liked him and thought I loved him. I remember him taking my hand and making me jerk him off and I kept stopping but he’d have me continue. Eventually because I was nervous, uncomfortable and borderline about to have a panic attack he took over and finished.

[Fr_Chuck]

Because of your age, there is no ability to give consent. So it would be an assault.

The issue had you been of age, is that you never said nothing.

[talaniman]

How old was he at the time? Have you since learned that you must speak up for yourself? He was taking advantage of you, but I don't know about assault.