[suleman]

Excuse me I would like to ask somequestion abut dating that I did
Frist I was wondering why a men should ask a women for a date ?
And when I was in the street or in the shopping or in caffeeday or anywhere I see maney grils and I know that she can be myfriend or not but I donot know how I have to do?
When I meet a gril in anyplace anywhere,I try to talk to them but I donot know what I have to say to them and the situation about us is like all people at world we are a free in the world am really wondering I was know about onegril that we have same feeling and I try to tell her that am in love with I wrote a letter to her but I can't give her because she doesn't know that but she heard that I want her and whenshe try to do something she doesn't find me and it wa forlongtime seems like 2yrs back butwhat I have to do now to be with her again we are still in loving but I have to tell her that as I told you I donot know how I can start it ?

[phoenix1664]

First off that is a good question I don't know why it is mostly guys who ask but it just is good for a debate though.

Anyway if you love this person or even live them a lot the best thing to do is find out how they feel then if they feel something for you then just aproach them don't just sit tin the shadows and wait or the time will pass you by, just talk you know how are you start a conversation and see how it goes and if it is going well ask if they are with anyone and just take it from there.

[Bluerose]

It's difficult to know what to say today. There was a time when the person you were interested in worked beside you or lived close by and you could learn a bit about what s/he liked and you could talk about that and then invite her/him to have a coffee sometime soon.

But now, you are meeting and bumping into each other all over the place. And I agree, it is very hard to know what to say right at the beginning. I think reading a few books on meeting people and developing new relationships is a good way to go for starters.

[ScottGem]

Why would you want to date a grill? Eat at one, yes, but date one? Maybe you are looking for a smoking relationship? But really, wouldn't dating a grill be kind of one sided?

Sorry, couldn't resist :D