[AbrokenHope]

So My friend Kate who is now in her early 30s has had her share of set backs in her early life.
Kate's first relationship was abusive after that ended she met a friend whom she had grown up with an attended all the same schools after the death of a mutual friend the two started sleeping together and developed feelings for eachother.

after 6 years and due to lack of communication the "Named chris" she had been seeing and sleeping with met some one else This totally devastated she became so depressed and sad as well as angry with herself eventually the two stopped talking for along time ate still tried to text him but he never replied but chris had admitted to having feelings for kate after they parted ways. how ever kate had a lot going on she was really shy had social anxiety but has since been working hard to over come it and thankfully is doing much better , she still lives with her patents but now has a part time job and is volunteering .

a few weeks ago kate sent a picture of the new baby horse they had at the barn where she was volunteering it was intended to be sent to a co worker but some how the pic found its way to chris .

later that night chris replied to the text . Kate has always had feelings for this man but is not sure why he all of a sudden replied to her text after almost a year and a half of not talking. He seamed really excited to here from her. and has been around more they have been texting just about every evening .


What we would like to now is every ones opinion on
why is he replying to her text all of a sudden ?

What are his intentions ?and could it be because he and his gf parted ways ?

I just don't want to see her get hurt Chris seams to be a nice guy and has known her a long time .

[tickle]

Why is she not asking that question herself? I don't feel comfortable answering you about this. I do t know yr intentions.

[joypulv]

Any answer we give will be pure speculation. We can't possibly know, no matter how wise and mature and experienced we are.
Relationships come and go; you know that. Why it would even be a deep pressing concern to you or to her is beyond me.
If she feels strong enough to contact him, she'll find the reason soon enough. Chances are it's pretty simple.

[talaniman]

Why not just ask him those questions directly and see what he says? Why should she expect different results than what she got before?

Sorry, but if she hasn't even found out if he is indeed single and available again, why even talk to the guy? At this point best she can get is a POSSIBLE short lived rebound from his last relationship.

[Homegirl 50]

She should ask him this herself.