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AudiTT15 · Sep 2, 2015, 01:24 AM

Not to sure if I'm wasting my time or not.. Just in need of some relationship help!
Basically I started talking to a guy, he's a popular comedian so he is always busy.He's 35 Im 25.. And we started talking after one of his shows, nothing happened we were just texting, getting to know each other, then he asked me out for a drink, I cancelled.. After about 3 weeks of texting we finally went out for a drink, we had a great laugh but we ended up sleeping with each other! The next morning he was texting me and everything was fine. Then he invited me to his gig, introducing me to his friends,(other comedians), didn't end up going home.. Then he invited me to the cinema, and again that was great. He suggested his, and I didn't. He isn't a huge texter, I am I'm always on my phone! And it's frustrating I don't know if because his lack of texts he just wants sex or actually likes me! After the cinema I text him and he says "let's hang out soon" so what do you guys think?

tickle · Sep 2, 2015, 01:48 AM

Some people don't have time to text ALL the time. It is time consuming and irritating for me. Why don't you just pick up your phone and get him out for a coffee. You are waiting for him to text you ! Come on, you aren't a kid anymore.

On the other hand, you have already slept with him, so what more does he need from you?

smoothy · Sep 2, 2015, 07:34 AM

I think Tickle hit this right on the head.

catonsville · Sep 2, 2015, 07:45 AM

More than likely, he is miles ahead of you already. Since you have already slept with him there are no more surprises. Sounds like it is nothing very serious at least from what you have said.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 2, 2015, 09:14 PM

First don't be needy. Wanting him to text you all the time. With my wife, (used to be girlfriend) she may send 15 or more texts a day and I will answer with one or two. I do not like texting, it is a phone, gusss why, you can really call people and just talk to them.

Jake2008 · Sep 2, 2015, 11:45 PM

Let's be honest here.

You had no relationship with him. It wasn't even a friendship, or anything you could say was going anywhere. There was no getting to know each other.

It was two basic strangers, save for a few outings, spending more time in the bedroom, than the kitchen.

You know nothing about him, he knows nothing about you.

You were easy and allowed yourself to cross that line of self respect and dignity, by sleeping with him right off the bat.

I think you got exactly what you should have been able to see, right from the get-go. Nothing.