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    Ledgerwood Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 14, 2015, 12:09 PM
    Wife cheated with same guy twice
    Not sure what to think about it
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    Aug 14, 2015, 12:35 PM
    Okay. When was this? What are you doing about it? Why did she cheat? How much have you talked to her about this?
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    Aug 14, 2015, 12:41 PM
    “Not sure what to think about it”

    Maybe think about what’s a good time for her cheating numbers 3 and 4?

    Might be time to rethink the forever part of the commitment. It’s very disrespectful and usually once a cheater always a cheater.
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    Aug 14, 2015, 01:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Ledgerwood View Post
    Not sure what to think about it

    Twice that you know of...

    What is there to think? She is sleeping around on you. The only thing to think of is are you going to live with it and allow more of it... or are you ready to do something?
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    Aug 14, 2015, 02:17 PM
    Its an extramarital affair. How old are you both? How long have you been married? Kids? When and how did you find out?
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    Aug 15, 2015, 08:28 AM
    This must have really knocked you off kilter that you aren't even at the 'angry' stage yet.

    No emotion- really?

    Such betrayal is almost insurmountable in situations like this. Twice, you must be devastated and heart broken.

    Please provide some detail. The what, when who, and where of it all.
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