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clikshine · Jul 17, 2015, 01:02 AM

If a wife was found to have a disastrous past of multiple sexual partners, hookups, and abortions before marriage which she hid from her husband, then how should the husband react?

smoothy · Jul 17, 2015, 03:01 AM

He should grow a pair.. act like an adult and suck it up. She's his wife now and her previous life was none of his business as was his own to her. Because I doubt the husband was a perfect Saint either.

Odd how some people get indignant about their partners past...when their own was rarely any better.

Catsmine · Jul 17, 2015, 03:34 AM

Providing neither partner has any medical issues from their history, he should be glad that she has learned how to make love.

talaniman · Jul 17, 2015, 06:44 AM

I read your other question,

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ps-813052.html

I can only say you must judge a person by who they are NOW, and how you relate to them, and not who they were, and the mistakes they may have made. You obviously have no understanding of her and one wonders how long you were a couple before you got married?

I mean if things were great enough that you married her then the only thing that has changed is your mind and attitude. Don't dwell in the past, build for a future. I think your whole issue is that YOU ARE AFRAID AND INTIMIDATED by your own lack of experience.

If you married her, then forget her past, or at least NOT make it a big issue. WHY did you marry her? After all she has been through, you mean she ends up with a insecure scared virgin with self esteem issues? Why did you not reveal all that before you led her on?

Because you have no past, doesn't make you better than her in the first place, and second how dare you judge another. I mean what did you THINK you were getting into? Have you considered you were not ready for an adult relationship, let alone marriage? Thats in no way HER fault, no matter how hard you try to make it HER fault.