[Bigguy33]

Ok so I'm 15 and all my friends are living the dream with a girl in their arms all the time. Whenever we hang out their girls are always there and I'm always third wheeled I keep it to myself and now it's like I can't take it anymore they're all doing it and I'm stuck I've never had a girlfriend never kissed anyone never been in a one night/day stand and coming up I'm going on a "date" if you could call it that and I don't know what to do were just going to the movies and I don't even know what to do or what to say so can you help me

[Homegirl 50]

You go to the movies with the girl and be nice. Get to know her. Talk about movies and different things you like.
I hope you are not thinking one night/day stand with her. Relax and enjoy your first date.

[smoothy]

Sorry... but at 15... NOBODY is "living the dream", not yet anyway, you are only 15, I have shoes older than that if you see the point. Homegirl 50 offered some pretty sound advice. You can't rush or push things. Something's just have to happen at their own pace. And with relationships, many will fizzle out for no fault of anyone... a few might flourish. And most of all... you have to have a number of them before you know what is a good one and what isn't. MOST of what you call "living the dream" by the time you are 25 or more... you will be looking back upon thinking... boy did that ever suck back then and just didn't have the life experience to see it then.

[talaniman]

You really don't have to do anything but enjoy the movie with your date, have a few snacks, pizza, and a good time. No need to be jealous of other guys, and the fun you think they are having, or be a third wheel.

Be a good guy, and do your own thing, and forget the "one night stands". In a few years you will see it for the middle school learning experience it really is, and all those guys you were jealous of will be scuffling trying to find real manhood in the real world.

[Precious7]

To make it more simple, do what would you do if you were going to movie with your close friends. Enjoy, be involved, be who you are. :)

[Bigguy33]

It's kind of hard right now because I don't have her number but my buddy does and he's always busy and doesn't have a lot of time were kind of planning it as a double date so it's not awkward for him