[duhdah03]

Hi there
My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex 3 short times and I did not ejaculate inside her any of the three times although I did not urinate in between only between the first and the second not second and third what would be the best thing to do? Should she morning after pill/ plan b?

[joypulv]

Urination has no bearing on chances of getting pregnant.
Let's say her chance is 1 in a 20 - I just made that up because there is no way to calculate.
Let's say she's that 1 woman out of the 20 who got pregnant.
Does that help her any? No. Chances are meaningless. You might as well play Russian Roulette.

Yes to Plan B, but don't treat the drug like candy in the future. It's a real drug. Get real birth control.

[ScottGem]

ANY time there is penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy. You can minimize the risk but not eliminate it. There is really no way to give odds on pregnancy since it only takes 1 sperm to fertilize an egg.

[Alty]

Pregnancy is possible any time you have sex. Unprotected sex increases your odds significantly. In other words, having unprotected sex 3 times, even without ejaculating inside her, means you're trying to conceive, and there is a definite chance of pregnancy.

The morning after pill is not 100% effective. The longer you wait to take it, the less effective it is. So when did this sex fest take place? How many hours ago?

[J_9]

Urination has no bearing on chances of getting pregnant.

Actually, it does. A man has one "tube," the urethra, that releases not only urine, but seminal fluid as well. Urinating between ejaculations clears the urethra of any remaining seminal fluid.

To the OP, any time you engage in penetration you risk pregnancy. Your chances are higher around her ovulation time, but we don't know when that is.

In the end, if you aren't prepared to be parents you shouldn't be engaging in risky behavior.

[smoothy]

Words to ponder... if you have a 1 in a million chance of being hit and killed by a random object falling out of the sky and crushing your skull.

What do the odds mean to that person it actually happened to?

Are you ready to be a dad or to hand over 50% or more of everything you make for the the next 18 - 21 years even after you break up.

You won't have any choice in that....you pay or go to jail until you do.

Use birth control or don't have sex. Even using birth control it can still happen. Its just a lot less likely.