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IGoTQUESTION16 · Jan 25, 2015, 05:21 PM

What do I do
Sorry that this is so hard to follow but,
A few days ago I had a pain inside of me saying I need to tell a girl I like them so I did, she froze for a minute and then just changed the topic and we continued to talk for a while and the pain went away but after an hour of being alone the pain came back and I started to cry, she seemed that she liked me but was too embarest to talk about it but every time I think of a girl I think of her and almost cry again. I think I need to know if she likes me, would I ask her that or would I need need to know, I'm confused and do not know what to do now. I also need to know how to get rid of the pain. (keep in mind I'm finishing Jr.high)
Please Help,
Thanks in advanced.

Fr_Chuck · Jan 25, 2015, 06:44 PM

You do not "tell" them you like them,unless you have already been doing things together in groups or other activities.

You just start talking to them a lot, try to hang out with them, there is no need to start telling feelings, until a closer friendship develops.

odinn7 · Jan 25, 2015, 06:49 PM

If she froze and then continued on in a different topic, she is not the one for you. Move on.

As Fr_Chuck said, you need to hang out and do things for a bit first...be friends first and go from there.

smoothy · Jan 25, 2015, 08:46 PM

I agree with Fr_Chuck and odinn7, you are going about this WAY wrong. You don't pick one person and decide they are the one. EVER. Particularly if you don't even know if they even like you first. You are setting yourself up for failure doing it the way you have. It will freak out MOST people if soemone approached them like that. And crying about it? Dude....seriously. Worst thing you can ever do is overthink things to the scale you did here which you obviously did. Its normal to think, oh bummer......but to be so devestated to cry about it over and over. Very much NOT normal. Not every person you like is going to feel the same in return. Some won't like you.....a few might want to be friends.....precious few of those will even consider going any further than that. And you HAVE to BOTH be on the same sheet of music or nothing is going to happen.