[Syeda Haniya]

I want to ask a question. I had sex with my boyfriend but I didn't bleed during intercourse but he leaked sperms inside me That means I can't be pregnant right? I am really worried and don't want to get pregnant

And I he didn't insert it deeply . Just lille bit. Ididn't end uup bleeding not even I end up with pain. That means he didn't break my virginity. Please help me n answer my question soon

[Syeda Haniya]

I want to know can I get pregnant without bleeding or pain? It was my first time but I didn't end up with bleeding or pain. And my boyfriend told me he didn't penetrate it deeply. Please help me out

[DoulaLC]

Whether you happen to bleed after the first time that you have sex has no effect on the possibility of pregnancy. Your hymen can be broken without having sex, so bleeding is not a way to confirm if a woman is a virgin.

Anytime a penis is in you, pregnancy may be a possibility. How much of a possibility depends on several factors, including whether there happened to be sperm present, and if you happened to be ovulating around that time.

Odds are you are not pregnant, but you should not count on the penetration being only a little bit or your not bleeding as signs that pregnancy can not be possible.

Before you engage in any further sex, be sure that your partner is always wearing a condom and ideally you should also use some form of birth control. If you are not ready for even the slightest possibility of an unplanned pregnancy, do not have sex... at all. Do not get talked into it by your boyfriend, do not believe that it can't happen to you. Even with birth control, pregnancy can sometimes happen, it just lessens the chance.

[Syeda Haniya]

Should I take contraceptive pills . Like I had intercourse last night. So should I go for contraceptive pills?

[DoulaLC]

It would be a good idea to speak to your doctor about what options would be best for you. There are some health situations where birth control pills may not be the best choice. Depending on where you live, you will likely have a number of options to discuss and decide on. The biggest factor is use whatever you decide on correctly. But again, your boyfriend should always use a condom as well for even more protection.

[Syeda Haniya]

I am scarscared to go to a doctor. I can't go to doctor without any family member. What should I do?

[Wondergirl]

I am scarscared to go to a doctor. I can't go to doctor without any family member. What should I do?

How will you get contraceptive pills without seeing a doctor? And pills must be taken faithfully for a month before they begin to protect you.

[Syeda Haniya]

I forgot to tell you. My boyfriend released sperms 3 to 4 times during sex. And I feel like he didn't penetrate me deeply. Or we did it firmly. And yeah I was thinking to take pills without doctors advice

[Wondergirl]

I forgot to tell you. My boyfriend released sperms 3 to 4 times during sex. And I feel like he didn't penetrate me deeply. Or we did it firmly. And yeah I was thinking to take pills without doctors advice

"Deeply" doesn't matter. Sperm are eager to find an egg to fertilize.

How can you get pills?

[DoulaLC]

I am scarscared to go to a doctor. I can't go to doctor without any family member. What should I do?

You can't usually get them without seeing a doctor. If you did happen to be able to get some....you could cause yourself some health problems if you don't use them correctly and if you happen to have any health concerns that would make the additional hormones unsafe for you.

So either your boyfriend uses a condom... always (there should be no penetration at all without a condom on, not even for a short time), or you stop having sex until you are married and it won't be a problem if you happen to become pregnant.

Keep in mind that you may still end up pregnant even if he uses a condom, so you will have to decide it is worth taking the chance? What would an unplanned pregnancy mean for you? How would it impact your life and your plans? If it is something that would cause serious problems for you, you may want to stop any sexual contact now before things go too far.

If you boyfriend truly cares about you, he will not want to put you in a situation that could cause you problems.

[Syeda Haniya]

Yes you are absolutely right. And yeah he released sperms 3-4 times while we had sex last night. I just wanted to clear my doubt and get peace of mind

[DoulaLC]

If this was very recent, in the last few days, you may be able to obtain emergency contraceptive pills from a chemist/pharmacist. It will depend on if that is available in your area. Otherwise, all you can do is wait until you have your next period and see what happens.

[Syeda Haniya]

So can I take emergency contraceptive pills? Will it be safe and do I have to take it just once.

[DoulaLC]

Yes... there may be several types available depending on where you live. You'll need to ask the chemist/pharmacist or a clinic where you live. Most you should take within 3 days of having sex, some can be taken a little later. Some are one pill, some are two taken several hours apart. The sooner you take them after having sex, the more effective they will be.

[Wondergirl]

But please don't think you can have sex freely and often, and think these pills will always protect you. Your body will rebel.

[Syeda Haniya]

Yes and what if we had intercourse and the guy doesn't release sperms then it's allright? No pregnancy chances?

[Wondergirl]

Yes and what if we had intercourse and the guy doesn't release sperms then it's allright? No pregnancy chances?

The guy ALWAYS releases sperm (unless he's sterile). There is always a chance of pregnancy, no matter if he don't penetrate very deeply or how much birth control there is or if he pulls out. The chance may be small, but it is there.

[ma0641]

Yes and what if we had intercourse and the guy doesn't release sperms then it's allright? No pregnancy chances?

Wrong!! Pregnancy can occur without ejaculation. At least use a condom.

[Syeda Haniya]

Ok . Thanks for the help. For now I don't have pregnancy chances right

[Wondergirl]

Ok . Thanks for the help. For now I don't have pregnancy chances right

Yes, you do. Haven't you been reading this thread? Read it again.