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cherrlyblossom4 · Dec 22, 2014, 09:28 PM

I think my best friend and my boyfriend like each other. They sit by each other in class well not really but they sit close to each other and I sit across the room from them and he keeps switching seats with the kid beside her so he can sit beside her. Also when all three of us are together they tease me and when we got to pick our seats in class my best friends made my boyfriend sit in the middle so she could sit by him to and when me her him his best friend and my mom went to the movies together they sat there and flirted with each other the whole time my mom even thinks they like each other and a bunch of my other friends think so too. They are always talking to each other on pinterest and he hasn't talked to me in two days. Also I missed a day of school and when I went to pick up my siblings I saw them standing outside together. I'm scared to talk to him about it because he'll get mad and I can't talk to her because she'll tell him. I've been really sad about it lately and they keep asking me what's wrong and I'll make up something. I've already talked to one of my friends about it and she doesn't know what to do. Please help

Homegirl 50 · Dec 22, 2014, 10:10 PM

How old are you? It doesn't sound as though either of them are concerned for your feelings and why would you date someone you are afraid to talk to?
Either ask him what's going on or continue to be miserable.

talaniman · Dec 22, 2014, 10:32 PM

Do you really need a boyfriend, and a best friend, you are afraid to talk to? I mean talk to them both at the same time, and if need be, dump them both. Let them have each other because you deserve better, and can do MUCH better than them.

cherrlyblossom4 · Dec 23, 2014, 10:58 AM

I'm 15 turning 16 in April. It's kind of confusing cause when me and my boyfriend got into a fight my best friend kept telling me to fix it cause we belong together and my boyfriend kept on saying he was going to commit suicide cause lots of other people were mad at him too so our teacher took him outside to talk to him and when he came back him and my best friend sat in the corner talked for a while then she came and told me that he said he was sorry and wouldn't fight with me anymore and she said we shouldn't fight anymore cause we are a cute couple but why couldn't he talk to me himself why'd he tell her to tell me and why does she want us to stay together if she flirts with him so much

Homegirl 50 · Dec 23, 2014, 11:37 AM

How long have you been dating him? This is too much drama. He is not emotionally healthy and he does not need to be in a relationship.
He and your friend seem to have a relationship you two don't. You can stay friends with them if you want but I'd leave the dating out of it.

cherrlyblossom4 · Dec 23, 2014, 01:37 PM

We dated for 5 months last year then we broke up and got back together a month ago

talaniman · Dec 23, 2014, 03:13 PM

Didn't work then, doesn't seem to be working now. If you cannot talk about it, it sure won't work at all.

Homegirl 50 · Dec 23, 2014, 04:18 PM

Well you broke up for a reason a while ago. You should have stayed broken up. This is too much drama.
Time to walk away and stay away.