You get into a relationship, without parents knowledge or permission, in a society where there is required. You hide your relationship from your parents, You still have not told your parents (since you do not know what they will say)
So, you tell them, and see what they say, You learn that you can not, and should not lie and hide things from your parents. Their anger may be that you keep it secret for all this time. The longer you wait, to talk to parents the worst it is going to be.
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