[archiec]

I hope I explain this right - about 2 months ago two people in work suggested or as a joke I ask the daughter of one of the women in work to the Christmas Party. But as time went by I thought about asking her for real and then not because they wanted me too, because I wanted too. So I did ask her and she said yes. We went out for lunch, she came over to my house for a drink and a chat and we went out to a movie. Now the Christmas party is this weekend and I would like to tell her how I feel (that I like her and that I would still like to see her after). But should I tell her before we go to the party like when were waiting for a cab/taxi, during it like when were dancing or wait till its over? Any help would be great.

[J_9]

Huh?

When you drop her off ask her if she would like to go out with you again.

[Homegirl 50]

Ask her at the end of the evening. Tell her you would like to see her again

[Fr_Chuck]

Do not get into telling her too much about feelings, it is far to early, but you either ask her out at the end of the evening (or you call her up in one or two days and ask er again.

[talaniman]

I wouldn't get too deep with the feelings talk either, but let her know you enjoy and appreciate her company, and would like to date again. You do talk sometimes when you aren't on a date don't you? Just a few dates is a little too soon to get too deep, and too carried away by growing feelings.

Enjoy the casual dating and get to know each other a while before you give your heart away.