[damnineedhelp]

Hello! I tried to hook up eith this girl for more than a month.I like her a lot.it's been almost 2 months since we are a couple and today she told me that she wants a break, she has too many problems and it comes from inside and wants to be friends because we have a lot in common.shall I accept it or shall I tell her what I feel for her and tell her that this is the point of a relationship:also to be good friends and be there for each other?she said that she can t have a relation right nowso.. is it a break like she said at first or is it a break up? She also mentioned that she does not know if we will ever make up.

[tickle]

I think she is letting you down easy without being able to say she is just not into you. I would respect her wishes if I were you, then maybe she will respect you.

[joypulv]

I agree with tickle.

Your words bother me a little. Are you a lot more hung up on her than she is on you? And "..shall I accept it or shall I tell her what I feel for her" suggests that you don't quite understand relationships. You don't have a choice - you have to accept it. And why didn't she know what you feel for her before she said she wants a break? If you hold all your feelings in until someone is about to leave you are going to be left every time. You can let someone know how you feel without it being all clingy and needy and jealous and demanding.

[talaniman]

Of course you accept it and move on. Thank her for her time, and wish her happiness, then leave her alone. You already know that relationships don't always work for long, but it can be fun dating.