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    marceilawrg25 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 2, 2014, 03:23 AM
    Lost Condom
    OK me and my friend has sex three nights ago and I didn't realize the condom came off inside of me until three days later what are the chance of getting pregnant?
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    Sep 2, 2014, 04:21 AM
    ANY time there is penile insertion there is the chance of pregnancy. You can minimize the chances, but not eliminate them. Condoms are one of the least effective methods even when used properly.

    No one can put a number on your chances. You just have to wait to see if you get your next period. If it doesn't come when due wait another week or so and take a HPT.
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    Sep 2, 2014, 04:53 AM
    I'd have SERIOUS thoughts about sleeping with him again... EVER. Seriously? De didn't know he started wearing a condom... then takes three days to tell you? Heck....I'd have to think long and hard before I ever talked to them again.

    I'd be well beyond upset if I was a female and I was you.
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    Sep 2, 2014, 05:34 AM
    Smoothy::He knew he wore a condom but didn't tell me it came off yes I am pissed at him and can't wait to give him a piece of my mind I'm so nervous and been up all night looking for answers I had no clue until I went to use the restroom this morning and it came out 😑😟
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    Sep 2, 2014, 05:46 AM
    Well, basically there is a chance you can become pregnant as was pointed out. Statistics really mean little because anytime someone quotes the odds are XXX to 1, someone is always that one.

    Seriously, DO let him have a piece of your mind. If he treats this so casually, imagine what else you can't trust him about.

    And I'm telling you this as a guy. One who would have said something right then and there if it happened.
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    Sep 2, 2014, 05:48 AM
    Yes cause that is not cool at all he should have said something about it
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    Sep 2, 2014, 08:19 AM
    If the condom came off and it was in you for three days than the little swimmers have had plenty of time to invade your baby making factory. So it was like he didn't wear anything at all. If you are pregnant than you will know by missing your periods. If your next period doesn't come within two weeks of when it should have than you are going need to have a test. As well if you're certain about his STI status you will want to get yourself checked out in the next few weeks.

    A point of order here. Getting pissed and screaming your head off at him won't do any good. If this is a serious relationship, than a conversation about this as will need to happen before he come close to you again. If it isn't serious than he doesn't get ANYTHING from you unless the test is positive. Than you two will be having some serious discussion about how to raise a baby if you decide not to terminate the pregnancy. Regardless of the outcome of this I would investigate other forms of birth control. If you don't' want to be pregnant than it is your responsibility to not become pregnant, it isn't up to the guy putting it between your legs. As you know it can be horribly unreliable. You need to take responsibility for that yourself because these mistakes take two people.
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    Sep 2, 2014, 08:30 AM
    Yes u are absolutely correct he claim he didn't in the condom can u get pregnant off precum the condom came off and he put on another one
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    Sep 2, 2014, 08:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by marceilawrg25 View Post
    Yes u are absolutely correct he claim he didn't in the condom can u get pregnant off precum the condom came off and he put on another one
    As I said, ANY time there is penile insertion there is the risk of pregnancy, So yes, you could wind up pregnant from this.
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    Sep 2, 2014, 08:45 AM
    Oh okay thanks
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    Sep 2, 2014, 08:53 AM
    You might also want to be mindful of any signs or symptoms of infection.

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