
Originally Posted by
Jokr
I am not having a problem drinking. This was one time I had about 7 beers in a 3 hour time frame and was tested 90 hours later. Jus looking for some opinions and feedback. Appreciate the messages.
You are not having a problem drinking. That is the problem. A bit of a play on words but hear me out.
For whatever reason, as you haven't shared and that is your prerogative, you are not allowed to drink for a certain period. Two ways to approach this is to one, not drink or trying to be smart about it, drink, and hope you don't get caught. Now a bit of psychology, a REALLY small bit. A person is going to try to get away with whatever they can if no one knows. You find a $100 bill and instead of figuring out whose $100 this is you will pocket it. It is something that you will face no consequences for and will feel no guilt for. This is key. As soon as you humanize the act, for example seeing a mother who's scrapping by trying to feed two kids drop money you're more likely to give it back to her. You can get away with it by pocketing it, but you will feel guilt because you know who it belongs to. You're more likely to give it back to her.
The same goes for you. You believe that you can get away with it so you will. This is also instinctual rather than intellectual. You have a positive pleasure response from drinking, you believe that you can outsmart the people testing it and so you drink. The intellectual part hasn't really chimed in and said, "Well if you don't drink you will pass all the tests and come ## years in the future you will reap the benefits of not drinking now by getting (drivers license back, promotion, custody of your kids, criminal record expunged, ad nauseum)". Your brain is stuck on the instant gratification of getting your drink and pleasure response of it now rather than the potential future gains. So biology is against you in this case and that is fine. You need to realize this and figure out for yourself whether this is the proper course of action. Does instant gratification now win out over future gains.
An interesting study has shown that most people, given the option of one cookie now or two cookies in a day will choose one cookie now. You're in the same boat.
I personally don't care whether you drink and whether you pass. What I care about is putting a seed of thought in your brain that will make you think about this. Good luck.