[B0ssLady]

I know that. My boyfriend can't be there to help me unless I am pregnant because my mother will know and take that into consideration. We are currently separated and we can't see each other. If I am not then I will find out what else could be wrong. I know I have to find out now and I will find a way to do that. I just wanted to know what were the other possibilities. I am sorry for the confusion and not being clear to you all. I will also talk to my boyfriend about this and we will discuss this over the internet for now. No, I did not have a full discussion about this with him which wasn't a smart thing to do and at first I had a strong feeling that this couldn't be what is wrong, but I became more sick over the week which made me think otherwise. But you are right and I will take all necessary steps to find out. So to be on the safe side I am going to do what I have to do. Thanks for the advice. Although some of it I got very sensitive about something's, your answer did help me and so did the rest of you guys answers.

[Fr_Chuck]

The boyfriend, can not do things for you, all the time.

School should be starting, and most schools, either provide or can arrange a pregnancy test. ** not sure about yours.

But you have a friend at school get one for you, if you are being punished and not allowed to even go to a store.

Also, if you wait till next month, and don't have it, something is wrong, to the point o needing the doctor.

[DoulaLC]

Talk to your sister or a trusted friend to see if they can get one for you, or your school nurse as Fr_Chuck suggested. It will be confidential.

If you do share this with a friend, be very careful of who that is so your business doesn't get spread around your school.

If you continue to feel ill, ask your mom to take you to the doctor and you can test there. Mom does not have to go in the exam room with you.

[B0ssLady]

I am home schooled now and my mother is making a doctors appointment for me.

[Alty]

If you haven't gotten your period by the time you see your doctor, tell him/her that it's possible that you could be pregnant, and ask to be tested. Anything you say to the doctor is confidential, he/she cannot tell your mother, or anyone, without your consent.

I'm sorry if I was harsh at times, but this is serious stuff, and if you are pregnant you're going to have to deal with a lot worse things than my being brutally honest. It won't be easy, not at all.

Please do come back and tell us what you found out, and I really do wish you all the best. I hope, for your sake, it's something other than pregnancy, and I hope that if you dodge this bullet, you learn from it for the future. Take care kiddo.

[B0ssLady]

Thank You. I will let you all know what's wrong. I should be hearing from the doctor first thing tomorrow morning.