[landen16]

I like a guy name Jordan . He is so fine to me. How can I stop liking other males? I have been through so much being feminine . Please help?

[Wondergirl]

How old are you?

[odinn7]

Yeah, maybe you want to add more to this other than what you've said. If you want a real answer, we need a real question that we can work with.

[Precious7]

"You are saying you have been through so much feminine". Who told you and how you know that? Your friends? If someone like pink flower instead of blue it doesn't mean they became feminine, its just may be the person had known pink flower not the blue, or person had a bad experience with those blue flowers out there! So the person like pink rather than blue. It doesn't mean they became feminine! You got it? or should I explain in simple and direct word.
And as an answer to your question, just start looking or paying attention to beautiful girls, you will automatically stop looking at guys. ;)

[Fr_Chuck]

Love, gay or straight, has nothing to do with stopping liking other people, or having strong desires or sexual impulses. It is a matter of commitment and even though you like someone else also, you know, you are faithful to your one person

[talaniman]

You don't have to feel guilty about liking other people besides the one you have a crush on. It's human to have feelings of attraction for others. What counts are your actions and what YOU do about your feelings. You don't have to get carried away and cross the lines of good behavior no matter how intense your feelings are.

Now what's this other stuff about going through so much being feminine about? How old are you exactly?

[Oliver2011]

I will assume you are a teenager so discovering who you are in the teen years is a scary place. But everyone goes through it and everyone comes out okay on the other side.

"How can I stop liking other males? I have been through so much being feminine ."

Being different is a gift. Just because others don't accept people that are different doesn't mean that you need to see yourself as bad or wrong or anything negative. Think about how boring the world would be if nobody was different. So be thrilled you're different. I know I am thrilled I am different.

You will be a better friend to people being true to yourself. Everyone won't accept you so know that going in. But you know what, some people don't accept others because of their skin color, their race, they maybe heavy, or for whatever reason. All that negativity is on them, not you.

I know what you are going through is difficult. I went through the same thing too. And I am here to tell you it gets a lot better as you learn more about yourself and accept yourself.