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    meganmendonca22 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 30, 2014, 05:56 PM
    Should get back with him?
    Him and I had been dating since June last year until March this year. But we were long distant and were off and on. When I finally met him in person his X girlfriend was there with him. Weird.. I know. I was suspicious but thought I could trust him. He cheated on me and didn't tell me. I had to find out from the x girlfriend! I broke up with him and didn't talk to him for a month.

    He texted me in May and we started talking again. But now Idk if I should get back with him? What do I do? I am still in love with him and all my friends think I should!
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    Jul 30, 2014, 07:53 PM
    Your friends weren't cheated on and can you trust him after this?
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    Aug 13, 2014, 10:02 PM
    I'm a firm believer in everybody deserves a second chance. I think that before you decide to get back with him make it crystal clear to him that he needs to choose between you or the ex.
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    Aug 13, 2014, 10:45 PM
    You are not even dating him. You are long distance and he is lies and cheats.

    Why should he be different now, what changes has he made in his life.

    And you can not love him, you do not even know him well.
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    Aug 17, 2014, 11:49 PM
    I feel you should get over this lovey-dovey feelings for him... long distance relationships need lot of trust and commitment to be together... and your guy has already cheated on you... what you can expect from him... do you think he will not cheat you again... ofcourse he will... whenever he get a chance to cheat on... he will... rest is up to you... I would suggest not to get into this relationship... move on... and find someone... who can be with you... and can truly love you...
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    Aug 19, 2014, 10:11 PM
    If you have to ask, then maybe its not a good idea
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    Aug 19, 2014, 10:36 PM
    This is your decision and yousr alone.

    Doesn't sound like you trust him. If you did, it would be a no brainer, you'd go running back to him no problem. The fact that you're asking for advice on this, is a clear no to getting back with him.
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    Aug 20, 2014, 12:53 AM
    If your heart has even a small iota of doubt and don't feel peace, then don't do it.
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