
Originally Posted by
fancyprune
To why I don't tell my parents is because why hurt them? I'm not doing this to rebel, I'm doing this because we want to take the next step of our lives
I guess thanks but not.
the question wasn't about your opinion, so there was no reason to "disagree". What was my fault is that i left out some things.
What would have been the right answer would have been "No" or "Doubtfully"
I guess it was dumb of me using a site I never herd of. Should have went to ask.com

Originally Posted by
fancyprune
Hum, this site is for people to give anonymous (kind of like hiding behind a screen) advice in an open forum. Most of the advice relative to relationships is a bunch of opinions from strangers. That is what you get here. When facts are in question, most of us try our best to be accurate, but there is no proven, factual answer to your dilemma. We can tell you that if you aren't ready to stand up to your parents and own your relationship publicly, you are not ready for marriage. They might disown you / you have to choose. It sucks, but marriage is about choosing your spouse above all others when a choice must be made. If they say they don't recognize your marriage, tell your parents you don't recognize their view on this issue.
I quoted it before it gets changed yet again to something else.
Yeah... constant editing indicates you are being deceptive by trying to hide your original question.
Otherwise you ADD to the post in a followup...not by removing and completely rewriting the original question to suit answers you were given.
Seriously at this point its hard to believe anything you've told us.
You want someone to agree with you...you don't want honest answers. There is a HUGE difference between the two most times....particularly this time.
I'm sorry but absolutely no way does this sound like its from someone old enough to be living on their own for the last 4 years as you claim....it sounds exactly like someone thats 17 and living with mom and dad that doesn't have a job and is trying to have it both ways.
Sorry if you disagree, but thats exactly how it looks based on what you say, how you say it, and the fact you keep trying to cover your tracks every time something is said.
An adult stands by anything they said.....the first time without trying to hide it.
I seriously do NOT believe you have the maturity to be getting married based on everything thats happened so far on this thread.
I personally don't care WHO you are marrying...I dislike people that are dishonest and keep trying to hide things and constantly changing the question hoping to change the answers they get to suit what they want to hear.
Be honest, be upfront, don't keep going back and changing the original question . It makes you look bad and deceptive to anyone that sees it.