[talaniman]

Take a break then.

[ScottGem]

First, Again, this is not about Kai. If you want to continue seeing him then do so. Some of the responses have suggested that you concentrate more on your son then being in a relationship, and that is a valid point. But its not the main issue.

You are in denial that you have turned out fine. It is clear from the fact that you got pregnant at 15, that you didn't turn out fine. It is clear from the title of this thread that you didn't turn out fine. It is clear from your attitude to people trying to help you, that you didn't turn out fine.

What most of us have been trying to do is encourage you to understand that you made bad choices. That those bad choices have resulted in consequences that have changed your life. That you have to accept those changes and understand you can't live the same life you did before you got pregnant. That you need to understand that Jared is and must be the primary focus of your life for, at least, the next 18 years.

We are trying to tell you that you CAN change your life around. That you CAN make a success of your life, make a good life for Jared, etc. But you need to understand that it will take a lot of work on your part. It will take changes in your life style and attitude. But until you do understand that (and I don't think you do, based on your reactions), then the likelihood of you changing your life around and being a good mother to Jared is not good.

I'm going to go to another help website. These adults are getting on my nerves.

And you think any other site will be better? You think any other adults are going to give you any different advice? You think children your own age are going to be able to give you good advice?

You have gotten a lot of good help here, despite what you said. But we aren't going to tell you what you want to hear. We are going to tell it like it is. Your striking out at us with vulgarity and false statements, just continue to show your immaturity and that you din't turn out fine.