You are asolutely right! As you have said that you are Teenager and going through that phase, so that means you know this also that all of these feelings what you are feeling for your so called dad, its just because you are going through a hormonal changes in your body! Let me explain you clearly, as you know or may have felt or have heard that during your periods, girls moods changes, she becomes more emotional, or cries easily and behave different then her normal behavior, so all these changes of moods and feelings happens because of the hormonal changes in her body during those days! But it doesn't mean that the girl is really very emotional or grumpy or moody in her normal days also. So, now usually girls are becoming more aware of these behavior and trying to manage or keep balance in her emotions during those days! So in the same ways, You are also going through some hormonal stuffs and that's normal but the main thing here is, we have to know that those feelings and emotions, that we feel like it's a real ''love'', but actually its just a physical attractions or infatuations. And you have asked the ''help to realize if you are in love'', so I am helping you by saying that you are not in ''Love'', so I have helped you to realize, and I hope that you realize it. I don't think so I need to say anything about what kind of relationship you are imagining about, I think you are smart enough to realize that this is just __________ see I don't even have any words to describe it! So you better think about it and protect yourself from the predators out there in your own home! Let me tell you one think, just think this way, Rick or whatever - even though he is step dad, but I understand you don't know the significance of this word "DAD", but if he was really a best person on this earth then, he would have not said those kind of things with you because he is older and mature. STAY AWAY from Him. HE really doesn't love you, if he would have loved you and was a good person, then he would have loved u as a daughter only. So, its not late yet, you can really save your life! If you stop all this!
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