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    jenny silvestha Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 20, 2014, 09:51 AM
    I am a Manipuri girl and he is from Bihar.
    My parents and the society where we live are strictly against this inter-cast marriage. We really love each other and we want to spend our rest of the lives with each other only. His parents agreed for our marriage but my parents are against it they even make us shifted to our home town from there where we lived for years and I met him. Just because of the fear that he would elope me. And they have this fear still now they don't want to listen any of my words about this topic they are worrying about their reputation and respects they have got after so much of hard works. They love me and cares for me too they are my parents I don't want to hurt them by breaking their trust which they had on me... neither I can leave him... I am in big dilemma please help me please suggest me what should I do and how... he is a well natured person and matured too he loves me and cares for me verry much... he can't leave me neither I and I can't leave parents too... please help
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    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
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    Jul 20, 2014, 09:57 AM
    How old are both of you?

    Do your parents plan to arrange a marriage for you with a man of their choosing?
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
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    Jul 20, 2014, 04:56 PM
    You have to chose, you are not going to talk them into changing their beliefs.

    You either marry him for love and know, you will ruin family relationship. OR you break up with boyfriend and marry someone they accept.

    You know this, and it is your choice.

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