[pinkbee333]

We were never together.

I really liked my guy friend, and we were pretty close, we used to text/talk almost everyday. We had never gone more than 3 weeks without taking since we met. He would show signs that he was into me but would always say that he wasn’t good at commitment, didn’t want commitment.So I finally let him know that I have feelings for him, and that I like him. To my surprise he says he doesn’t see himself being with anyone right now. So in other words he doesn’t want to date me. I was completely shocked, but after a few days I got over it, I wasn’t sad, I was glad I did it and finally knew.
We stopped talking for a bit ( I realized I couldn’t be friends with someone I liked that much) But then he started going out of his way to contact me, text me, and I responded and we were back to being friends again…. Until I saw him at a friends party, we barley talked and I tried to keep my distance. I text him the next day and he responds with who is this… I was crushed/devastated, (he should have known it was me from the way I replied.) We haven’t spoken since…... and it’s been weeks. I doubt he ever will. And now I’m a mess. I cry everyday, and I feel so sad and hurt. It was one thing to know that he didn’t feel the same, but to not even want to be friends anymore. I’m really sad, and I just want to be normal again.. how do you feel normal after something like this?

[smoothy]

You grin and bear it... and move on with your life... time will allow you to forget... so it does get easier with time. Eventually you will wonder why you were so upset.

[derwon25]

If you were just friends and that too just little bit texts and talks sometimes then why so sad about it. I hope that down there somewhere in the hearts of heart you still feel for him in the other way I mean iove interest types might that's why you have put the subject as "how to get over a break up" when it wasn't actually one. He was just a passing friend whom you sometimes talk and thus his presence or absence shouldn't bother you much. Just think this way and move ahead with your life. And what he did with you was an insult , how can you even think about and cry about a person whohurt yourself esteem haan?? Remember one thing in the end we are just by ourselves, you are the only person who will be with you until death so care yourself and respect yourself. Don't let anyone hurt it. Now cheer up cause one bad apple is now out of your basket!

[catonsville]

Read Derwon's last 2 sentences very carefully. The message is very good and should help you get back on track to a happy life.

[Mary carrol]

LIfe not stop for anyone , you should continue your life.

[Mary carrol]

I think you should make second Friend