[superstar18]

I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me. Let's just say the first time we met we did things and now I regret doing them, stupid on my part. When I text him sometimes he will answer and sometimes he will ignore it. But just the other day he's like we need to talk sometime if your up for it and I decided to be mean and said tell me what it is and I'll see if I want to or not. Should I be like do you want to talk or are you going to ignore me? I don't want him to think he can get what he wants all the time, so will being mean put him in place or not?

[aliseaodo]

Why would you be mean? He is taking initiative and saying he wants to talk to you. Meet up with him and see what he has to say!
*edit* - is this the same guy you were asking about last month?

[superstar18]

Well its because he's been mean back he would ignore me and no it's a different guy.

[aliseaodo]

(Hmm.. two different guys with the same problem in less than a month? Out of curiosity, how old are you?) Ignoring someone isn't necessarily 'mean' - it's definitely rude, but maybe he's telling you something by not answering your texts. Choosing to 'be mean back' is really immature. Having the 'I'll show you!" attitude isn't going to get you anywhere. As I said before you should absolutely meet up with him, are you afraid of what he might say to you?

[superstar18]

Well I just asked him if he wanted to meet up today but he hasn't answered. He doesn't have a phone so he tells me to.write him on Facebook and clearly he is ignoring me. I have been really nice to him and I think he is just taking advantage of that. I think it was the same guy I don't remember my last post, but if it was last month than it was him because that's when I met him.

[talaniman]

You have put up with this crap for a month already? WHY? Haven't you wasted enough time chasing this guy?

[superstar18]

I don't know its because I like him but I guess I'll just let it be

[talaniman]

That would be a wise choice as he obviously doesn't like you the same way. Sorry, it happens like that sometimes and we have to make a hard decision to let it go.

[superstar18]

I just want to know what he wants to talk about because he said he needed to talk to me about something. It's hard because I been down this road too many times and I wish I could find someone who will like me for me. It's just never going to happen. Been trying for so long.

[talaniman]

It doesn't matter what he wants to talk about does it? It changes nothing, and you should not reward his bad behavior because you are curious (and hopeful). Just walk away, and leave him alone and don't look back. I think its best to stop trying so hard to have someone like you, just be yourself and be happy with who you are and good people will notice and want to be around you and you won't have to chase people to be with.

Don't ever be so desperate to have someone that you give up your dignity, or self respect. Has this guy treated you with dignity, or respect? Of course he hasn't.

[J_9]

It has been asked, but not answered. How old are the two of you? This seems like a couple of 15 year olds.