[simpleman75]

He told me once, before we moved in together, that my weight was starting to be a problem for him. Exact words, I was pretty cool about it when he first told me but after time it was eating me alive. After a week I told him exactly how I felt and how I was not dealing very well with the fact he told me what he did. I told him I couldn't decide if it was going to be a deal breaker for me and how selfesteam had dissapeared.

I would keep doing what your doing. It sounds like the weight may be an issue for you just as much as him, if it is affecting yourself esteem. You cannot fault him for being honest, the same goes for you.