[geekinthepink]

Hi There, I had partial molar pregnancy last year and had undergone d&c to remove it. It a very sad time for me as this was my first time to be pregnant, we are trying to conceive again for the past months but it seems too difficult. Could you advise what I should do? Or any tips to make this less stressful? Thanks :))

[smoothy]

Maybe you just aren't patient enough...you've only been trying for months as you say.

Many people might try for a few years before being successful going as far as tracking their ovulation dates and times to increase their odds... some might have it happen the first time they ever have sex despite using protection. Its all about odds and statistics how soon or how easy it might be, but mostly LUCK is the major factor.

[LearningAsIGo]

Do you mean difficult emotionally?

I can relate, as I lost our first pregnancy, had our daughter but lost her twin, lost three more and finally had baby #2.

It's an incredibly difficult thing to experience and makes trying to conceive more of a "chore" than a pleasure, if you aren't ready. Follow your heart and try to relax about the process and what fate may have in store. It's important to remember that you want to conceive your child under happy circumstances, not because you are feeling pressured in any way. Be kind to yourself emotionally. Once you feel less stressed, your body will also begin to respond in a more positive, relaxed way.

God bless.