[Tristan 23]

Me And My ex girlfriend broke up three months ago. I kept no contact ever since but I have recently broke it. I did not get a response out of her. Have I ruined my chances

[Wondergirl]

Ruined your chances for what? (Do you understand the reasons for No Contact?)

[smoothy]

Yes.. you've ruined any chance you might have had to keep it, so they are coming to take away your Man Card tomorrow. Have it ready.

You broke up... it happened for a very good reason. What chances do you honestly think you had anyway? Why do you think she would forget whatever happened and come running back for more?

Seriously dude... does she have to file stalking charges before you get the message she's no longer interested. Don't become "that guy". Walk away, forget her, move on with your life... she has.

Have you ever had a situation where the other person wouldn't take no for an answer, and keep coming back again and again even if they made your skin crawl.

Well if you haven't yet...you probibly will at some point in the future. Don't impose yourself on a person that doesn't want you imposing on them.

She would have contacted you if she had any interest at all to get back together. THe fact she wouldn't answer is a clear indication she wants to be left alone.

[talaniman]

You ruined your chances when she dumped you and No Contact has no effect on what she does. It just give you a chance to get over it by accepting its time to move on, not have a chance to go back.

[odinn7]

It amazes me how many people believe that no contact is a method used to get the other person to come back to them...Wake up!

No contact is to help yourself heal and get over that person...not to make them come running back to you.

And if you've gone 3 months but caved, you need more help than we can give you. It means you spent that 3 months just thinking about her and waiting for her to come back...you wasted your time and didn't heal at all. The fact that she didn't contact you back speaks for where she is at right now...she healed and moved on while you sat there in hopes of her coming back...now where are you at? You have to start all over again and try to move on. Silly, really.

[talaniman]

Its also for you to not make a fool of yourself by begging and being annoying and having false hope she will change her mind. Or overthinking her not responding back to you.