[jmjmjm0123]

Hi ! Me and my girlfriend had sex on April 14 evening around 8oclock and I know I inside her . So I panic then when its morning April 15 exactly 9:10am she took 3 pcs of morning after pills and after 12 hrs she took again 3pcs of it (as directed in many forums and same brand) after a week she said that she had discharge like the white of an egg and after that she also had dark brown discharge then she had a light discharge of blood like a period but lighter than usual, so we consider that as her period that happens between apr 22 - 26 but aside from that she has irregular menstrual period it normally occurs 29th-4^th day of the month, but then when I read online forums , some says that that is usual because of morning pills, but some says she should take pregnancy test . Then may 11 she took pregnancy test and its negative but my concern is she says that she had an unusual cravings but she don't have appetite to eat other foods and I can recognize the most is her belly , its larger than its usual given the fact that she don't eat much . Is she pregnant ? Help me please?

[ma0641]

Believe me, "bellies" don't show that fast. Be more careful or you will be celebrating Mother's Day next year.

[DoulaLC]

Odds are she isn't pregnant. As ma0641 said, she wouldn't be showing so soon afterwards. A belly can normally appear larger or smaller depending on the time of day.

Which morning after pill did she use? Did she take a few regular birth control pills instead of actual morning after pills? When taking either emergency contraceptive pills or a few actual birth control pills, it is normal to have some irregular bleeding. Have her wait and see what happens when she would expect her next period. She can try another pregnancy test at that time if necessary.

Since it appears an unplanned pregnancy would cause extreme upset for you both, do discuss birth control options that can be used regularly and consistently if you are going to continue to engage in sex. Otherwise, best to hold off on anymore sex until you both are okay with the possibility of an unplanned pregnancy which can still happen even with the use of birth control.

[jmjmjm0123]

She don't take regular pills , because that's our first time to have that and its not planned at all . And I didn't mean to inside her , so when I did I start to panic and find ways in the online forums and I follow the instructions , the pills that I bought have only one color . We are not living at the same house so after that April 14 we don't see each other until yesterday may 11 when I gave her the pregnancy test because she is shy t buy that , the thing that I notice is her belly and that was her friends also notice , I read online forums a lot and I have red a 18yrs old with and a 1month pregnant and she say that her tummy gets bigger than usual , but I can read also that every woman is different so I'm starting to convince myself that she is not pregnant , do you think that the reason why her tummy became big than usual is because of pills ? Because if you can see her tummy is noticeable and it became big than when our last meet :(( before I saw her I know that she is not pregnant because of that morning pills but when I saw her it change because of her belly .

[smoothy]

You need to stop reading that forum because whoever posted that is so clueless it pales the imagination.

No woman in the history of the human race has begun to show at one month.

Here is a link to an easy to understand compairison week by week that what size item the developing fetis is the size of.

Baby Size Chart - Fetus Size Chart

Think about what and how much you or her ate the last meal and its clear why its impossible.

[DoulaLC]

What were the pills called that you got for her? Where did you get them from? At about 4 weeks, if she were pregnant, the baby would only be about the size of a seed.

At this point, you can either have her try another pregnancy test in about a week, or just wait until June and see if her period comes.

Again, the two of you might want to discuss the use of regular birth control by both of you if you plan to engage in anymore sex. At the very least, it would be wise for you to use a condom.

[Fr_Chuck]

You can have her take a pregnancy test, each week, until either it shows positive or she has another regular period.

Not sure what type of morning after pills these are. They do not sound like the normal ones, but it may be what is used in your location.

But no form of birth control and no morning after pill is 100 percent effective.

Also pulling out, does not stop pregnancy, so if that was your plan, it was not correct to start with.

As noted, no, she could not be showing at this point, that is just nervous over reaction. And worry and stress can stop her from having a period also.

If she is testing, she should always do it, first thing in the morning, as soon as she wakes up.

[Precious7]

I think "No" she isn't pregnant but it would be good for your own satisfaction to do a pregnancy test once a two week, till her next period starts. And there could be so many other reasons for those "unusual cravings". Sometime if we are happy we want to eat this and that stuffs, and just like girl during their periods get emotional, and they feel like eating ice creams, chocolate etc etc, I don't know if its hormonal or something and why it happens but it can be the similar reason for your Girl friend, may be She feels good and relieved in her sexual life, and that can lead to "cravings" even without appetite.

Don't worry! Everything will be good. :)