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Nada1994 · May 5, 2014, 06:08 PM

Before like 4th hour ago I was with my boyfriend in his car and for sure I'm virgin. Then he put his finger inside me. The finger in the middle then he push it but it didn't hurt me and when I saw his finger it have blood but not too much and I finish my period before 4 days and the blood keep coming out for 2 hours but just little. So am I a still virgin?

smoothy · May 5, 2014, 06:32 PM

Does it matter if you were playing these sorts of games?

If it does, then why are you playing these games?

If it's the finger on his hand yes... if it's the finger in his pants... then no.

Alty · May 5, 2014, 06:43 PM

He could have broken your hymen, blood would indicate that, or severe trauma. How rough was he when he inserted his finger?

The definition of virginity is penis in vagina. If a man inserts his penis, even a little bit, into a vagina, he's no longer a virgin. If a woman has a penis inserted into her vagina even a little bit, she's no longer a virgin. The presence of a hymen is not indicative of virginity. Hymens are lost many different ways, horseback riding, riding a bike, falling, born without a hymen etc.

In other words, what's your definition of virginity? In your culture (since English is obviously not your first language, your culture is definitely an aspect to this) what defines virginity? Is bleeding on your wedding night a sign of virginity (many women with an intact hymen don't bleed their first time) or is virginity based on penile penetration?

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Fr_Chuck · May 6, 2014, 12:09 AM

Agreed, it is possible he broke the hymen, but that is not what makes you a virgin or not. If he was not using hie penis, you are still a virgin. At this rate, not for long, but for now. *** at least in Western Culture. In some Middle eastern cultures, just him touching you, has serious future issues

talaniman · May 6, 2014, 07:41 AM

You may be a virgin as far as INTERCOURSE goes, but not as far as sexual activity goes. Some may say you are but I would NOT. Is this a big deal? I have known many who claim virginity, but are sexual in all ways except INTERCOURSE. It a crock of crap, a nuanced sham to get around real responsibility for your action by hiding behind words than portray a false front.

You have sexually been with a man. That's the truth, intercourse or NOT! It's your business whether you use that as an excuse in the future or not. To me that virgin crap is BS, and easy to get around.