[Sensen18]

Here's my question I haven't slept with my ex girlfriend since August and she has been to numerous ultra sounds and blood panels all coming back negative now she's telling me that she's having a deeper ultrasound done because she is feeling movement at night and she can't sleep! She says she is feeling like a flopping fish down below her stomach. Should I be concerned she in fact may be pregnant even though it's almost been a full 9 months since I've been with her? Is it even possible? She's very thin and very tall so I would imagine you would see a considerable bump at 8 3/4 months correct? I need some advice cause I'm going crazy someone give me some insight into this please!

[Natalie97]

Hey:) Um, I really wouldn't take ANY notice. Some ex girlfriends say it to capture you, (obsessive ex's).
I personally think she is saying this just to get you back. Some girls are like that:/ If she is tall and thin you would clearly be able to see! So don't worry!xx

[smoothy]

If she's going to make a claim... demand a DNA test to be done after its birth... I'd never admit anything before the DNA results are in, not private ones...but court ordered ones that would be admissible in court. There have been way too many men falsely named in the history of mankind. Many on purpose..others by wishfull thinking.

And you are right... at 8 months you will see a considerable bump unless she is quite overweight to begin with. Skinny women won't hide it that long.

[odinn7]

It would be 8 months plus right now...If she was pregnant, it would be obvious. Tests wouldn't be coming back negative either.

Sounds like she is trying to scam you...or maybe she will come to you in a few months with a baby and tell you it's yours. I would be careful on this one. She sounds like she has some issues. If she ever does come at you with a baby, definitely get a dna test done. Don't take her word for anything.

[carolmonroe38]

Um, run?

[DoulaLC]

Do you know if she has had any stomach concerns... several can cause a flopping type sensation.

Unless her "numerous ultrasounds" were right at the very early stages of a pregnancy, where it might be possible to miss a pregnancy at first... there is no way they wouldn't pick it up later. The doctor would be obviously checking for signs of pregnancy....enlarging uterus, amniotic sac, obviously a baby, etc.. They would also be able to tell by doing a pelvic exam and palpation of the uterus, which would certainly be enlarging from its normal size, which is about the size of your fist.