[ceycey]

I have been dating a man for 3 years , we had separated so man times but every time , after a certain period either he called me or I called him and reunited. Last time was 3 months ago , and since then none of us called each other . Now I learned that he will mary someone next June.. I have talked with him on the net and asked how this happened. He told me that he was marrying because of his parents' pressure , they had found a girl for him and they insisted that he should marry this girl. And he tol me that he was tired of their pressure and accepted . He saw the girl only once ! I know that this is true story because he is not such a person to lie about a subject like this and also his friends confirmed too . I did not know what to say and ask him while we spoke on the net because I was terribly shocked and just told him to be happy..
Now I want to see him so much and talk with him face to face . And if I have an only chance I want to try to change his mind . But I also think that if he loved me he would marry me not to someone he does not even know... He just told me bye on the net and we have not spoken again.. Maybe I should not call him again but On the other hand I also think what would I lose if I ask him that I want to see him just for once for a last time .
Could you advice me how to act ? Should I see him for a last time ? And if I do , what should I tell him to change his mind ?

[Fr_Chuck]

You were off and on for 3 years, it should be obvious this relationship was not working, you need to move on.