[jenna424]

Hi just wanted to know how to let go of a situation and just what ever is meant to be it will be. Anyway real quick was talking to a guy for awhile and it kind of stopped. I guess you could say its my fault I think he felt iw as playing games didn't meant to. Anyway I did text him once and haven't heard from him yet. HOW do I let this go and stop feeling so anxious about it? How do I get to a point and let it go and what ever is meant to be will be thanks.

[smoothy]

Just stop any form of contact... no letters, no emails, not texts, no phone calls, don't see him in person for anything.

You will naturally move on to other things and eventually this will become a distant memory.

[Cat1864]

Along with smoothy's advice: Get busy with your life. Meet up with friends, make new friends, start a new hobby or work on a project already in progress, work, school, clubs, volunteer, in general, live your life as though he doesn't exist.

Do things that are fun and keep your mind occupied. If you are tempted to contact him, start a project like making dinner or gardening that gets your hands messy. Easiest way I have found to discourage myself from making those types of calls.

If you do think about him, distract yourself. It may not be easy at first, but it does get better. Then comes the day, you realize you have thought about him for months. Good luck and have fun.