[lovelyheart1]

I have been dating this guy for a while and I was a virgin when we first got together. Like two months later, I lost my virginity to him. Then randomly he tells me that he does not trust me and that he know that I talk to other dudes. It seems like the only way I can make him happy is by always having sex even when I say no he still pull on my clothes begging. So a couple of days ago he came over after two months of not coming to my house acting like he was so in love with me. He then started begging me for sex and to give oral. When I said no he started pulling on my clothes and forces my hand in his pants. I just gave in and had sex and cried the whole time because I said no. Ever since that day he does not return my phone calls or text. What do I do? (He is 24 and I'm 19)

[smoothy]

Leave him... he sees you as nothing more than a booty call.

[talaniman]

Smoothy is absolutely correct, you are being used for sex by a fellow that doesn't take no for an answer. Leave him alone for your own good.

[Cat1864]

I do not know how long you have actually been dating him (for a while could mean three months or three years) but he is not worth your time. Do not allow him into your house again. Do have any contact with him at all.

Not only is he using you for sex but he is coming very close to crossing the line into rape. You should have kicked him out when he wouldn't take no for an answer and was pulling at your clothes, etc. You do not have to give in to his 'begging' or prove anything to him by having sex with him. If he truly cared about you as a person he would be more understanding of your feelings.

I doubt you are his only conquest. I highly recommend a doctor's check up to be certain he hasn't given you any sexually transmitted infections/diseases.

On another very important note, I hope you have been very careful to use protection.