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    henrietteaq Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 14, 2014, 07:44 AM
    I want her back so bad.
    My girl left me because of distance. We have only been out for a week and she already likes another guy. It breaks me. I wanted to marry this girl. She says she still loves me a lot and that she doesn't know what to do. I really do know she still likes me. I want her back. Please help me. I'm in so much pain.
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    Mar 14, 2014, 07:48 AM
    How old are you two and how long had you been dating?
    If she really loved you she would not have started liking someone a week later. She doesn't know what to do? She left you!
    Move on. No good will come from pinning over someone who has left you.
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    Mar 14, 2014, 08:09 AM
    SHE is being awful. Maybe she enjoys ripping your heart out with this story of a new guy while still loving you, who knows, or maybe she just wants two men fighting over her. The nicest thing I can think of is that she has some stupid idea that this is a good way to let you down gently (yeah, with knives twisting in you instead of one clean bullet).

    You don't deserve that, and you are better off without her. Good to find out what she's like now rather than after you married her.
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    Mar 14, 2014, 08:48 AM
    You don't need her, you don't want her... you just need to convince yourself of it.

    WHy do you want to marry someone who so very obviously despite what you think... does not love you.

    Know what happens to guys that do that... they are a laughingstock while their wives are out sleeping with half the town. And those kids you end up having?. might not be yours.

    Count your blessing you found this out now... go pull up your big boys pants... and let this one go... there are plenty of better ones out there... you won't meet any of them as long as you are stuck on this one.
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    Mar 14, 2014, 09:30 AM
    If she left you because of distance, then I wouldn't worry too much about a relationship with her. She could have had more imagination then that reason. You are well enough rid of her. Find someone else who really cares, who is more mature and able to carry on a conversation with you.
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    Mar 15, 2014, 07:36 AM
    I totally agree with Homegirl. She asked you how old you are. I am guessing in your teens. If you are any older than that then you really need to discover what love is because it can't be there after a week. Regarding being in pain we have all had breakups and we have all survived.

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