[switchace]

I meet this girl about 2 months ago through some friends of mine who are also her friends. When I first meet her I just wanted to go home with her and I ended up doing this. After that night we kept talking and I became very interested in her and began to really like her, we started hanging out a lot and to me it seemed as if we were "dating".
I had been seeing her for about two weeks and I had previous plans to go home on leave for two weeks, but before I left she called me and told me that she thought we were going too fast, which has happened to me before. This was not a big deal to me I figured that I would let her find her space while I was gone.
When I returened two weeks later I found out that while I was gone she got with my best friend, this disturbed me very much. She has scence told me that she can't give me what I want from her,but she still wants to be friends, she has even told me that I am like the best friend she never had and that she feels like she can tell me anything which she has told me many things about the very personnal happenings of her past.
The past two weeks my former friend has been back in the states any away from her and she continuely asks me to hang out with her and her friends, and scence I like her so much I can't say no. I have also told her that I can't be friends with her if she decides to stay with my former friend.
So this is my question how do I get her back if this is a all possible?

[lickemlolly]

No offense but why would you want her back? I mean she got with your friend.. ugh she obviosly doesn't want you and that's the cold hard truth and you need to face that... its not the kind of rship you need to be in.. trust me just leave this one alone... just move on... 2 weeks is nothing to stress over... and id think twice about your so called friend.

[turtlegirl]

She sounds very confused and I don't see why you want to get caught up in all the confusion. This isn't a healthy situation for you.

[Wildcat21]

You don't want to be with this woman - trust me. She will only create massive heartache.

Quit spending time with her. You went into friend zone.

That's pretty sick - with 'friends' (BOTH!! -TAKES TWO TO TANGO!! ) like that - WHO NEEDS ENEMIES??

My good! This gal is playing you like a fiddle.

It's sounds like you still have feelings for her. SHE HAS WALKED ALL OVER YOU - YOU ARE A SUCKER. Sorry for the tough love, but man - you have to grow up.

Even IF you wanted her back, hanging and being 'friends' WILL NEVER GET HER BACK!! OK? NEVER!!

Dude - you're being the nice sensitive guy by being her 'friend'. Woman HATE THAT!!

I'd tell you how to get her back - but you don't want to be with this woman what so ever. A few choice words for her come to mind.

AND she broke with you and now you're this sick little puppy dog around her - no friends with this chick.