[lincoln20]

Hey people!
Hopefully you can help!

I broke up with my ex a few months ago and never really got over her, we started going out having lunch etc etc as friends and when we saw each other out in town always ended up in bed! We have spoke about getting back together but she says she not ready?
I respected that and didn't push her!
I went out Friday night with one of our friends and had the best night out so far this year, and we spent all day together today!
I told her I liked her and I think she feels the same way!
I am just doing it to get over my ex?
My emotions are mixed because when I with her friend I feel happy!
What you think people??

[mckenzie134]

Hard situation mate but when the ex finds out I guarantee she will probably want you back. What was the reason for the break up. If I was you I might spend some time with the friend and work out which you want to be with but getting back with the ex if yourve slept with the friend. But then if the friend makes you happier and you like her then go for it but don't do it tio get at the ex because it won't be good for you cause you will be with the friend but in a few months when things settle you will realise tat you are with the friend for the wrong reasons and it won't work. If you really want the ex back remain friends with this new friend or whoever it is and keep goping out having a great time the ex will notice this and realise you're a great bloke who has a good time and attracts other girls this will show your confident and she may just like that quality but I would tell the ex if your out and she wants to come back that your not to keen on that at the momoent and are looking for something a bit more and your waiting for the right person shell wake up and before you knowing shell be asking to be back with you. If you take her back don't rush tell her you really like her aND HOPE YOUR FEELINGS WILL STILL BE THE SAME AND LET HER CHASE YOU FOR A LITTLE SHE WILL LOIVE IT...

[talaniman]

Hard to get over an ex when you still have lunch and sex with each other. Nothing has changed, its just your not exclusive, and can do what you want. Make a clean break and move on with your life. I advise against playing games with others feelings as you get over the ex.