[andddi]

I've been trying to conceive with my fiancé Since the beginning of July. With no luck, so far, I'm starting to worry 24/7 I can't have children. It seems like everyone around me is having kids left and right. I worry I'll be one of those woman who can't have children. On my mothers side, all the aunts uncles brothers & sisters were all blessed with big families and lots of kids! Same for my dad's side & Definitely on my boyfriends side of the family. I haven't had my period since December 6th 2014, and now I'm frantic because with every test I take and I see a no, I wonder why am I so weird? I went to the clinic 2 days ago & got a pregnancy test done & it came negative.. they requested I take a blood test, all I want is a nice big happy family like all of my other relatives.. all I want in life is to have a family! SOMEONE PLEASE HEAR ME OUT & help me. :(

[Fr_Chuck]

How regular are your periods normally ?

Have you medically tracked your ovulation dates, so you know you are ovulating and when. Not online charts that are not always right

Are you timing your sex, to only those few days before ovulation.

Have you and boyfriend, been checked to determine his sperm count,

Is he wearing over tight underwear, using hot tubs or other factors that can interfere.

OR>>> just blind luck hoping to get pregnant.

And 7 months is not that long, it can often take healthy couples following all the above a year or more sometimes.

Answer those questions and we can discuss

[J_9]

It takes most healthy couples up to a year or more of actively trying before conception happens.

Planning a wedding, since this is your fiancé, is stressful. Stress can inhibit pregnancy. Get the wedding over with first. Once you do that, both you and your husband should go for a pre-conception work-up. Just because you are not pregnant doesn't mean that you are not the one who is infertile. Many men have problems with sperm motility and sperm health. This may not be your problem, but his.