[bii]

I did abortion,I lost my baby tube, I am married now, did not tell any one about abortion, my husband and mother in law needs a baby boy from me, I could not get pregnant, please help me to get pregnant to save my married life, I love my husband a lot, I do not want to leave him

[bii]

Please doctor guide me to have a baby when I do not have a baby tube after abortion I had lost it

[Fr_Chuck]

You will need to visit your own personal doctor and see what options you have. ( no idea what a "baby tube" is. A correct real name would be nice.

If your abortion has caused medical problems, then only a real life exam with a local doctor will give you the answers you need.

[tharratt41]

Did you lose both tubes? If you did it is not likely you will have kids. I belief it is impossible. Do not listen to the stories of women giving birth without tubes I have seen no proof that validates these claims and have read a lot of artices claiming it is not possible.

[Fr_Chuck]

I have merged the threads.

First having a baby will not save a marriage, many women can not have children and there is no way to be sure to have a boy. That is up to mans DNA. Also to be honest, husbands mother needs to stay out of your family business.

[ScottGem]

You need to consult a fertility specialist on this. You and your husband need to be examined to determine whether you can have children. And then, instrucuted on how to optimize your chances.

[DoulaLC]

To add to what the others have said, one question would be how long have you been married?

Some important things to know:

* It can take a year or so for couples who are perfectly healthy to become pregnant. Doctors don't usually even consider looking for a possible problem until you have been actively trying for at least a year or unless you are over 35 and have been trying for at least 6 months.

* Your husband's sperm will determine whether you become pregnant with a boy, not you.

* If, after at least a year of trying, you are not pregnant, both you and your husband should consider having some testing done. It is often the male partner who may have difficulty fathering a child.

* Having just one fallopian tube (if that is what you are referring to) will not prevent you from becoming pregnant.

[Alty]

I too am confused when you say you lost your baby tube. Are you saying that you have no fallopian tubes? Are you saying you had a complete hysterectomy? The correct terminology would really help us help you.

Based on your post I'm going to guess that you're in a country where most people have no idea about sex, much less pregnancy and how it works. How will having a child, specifically a boy, save your marriage? Why is your mother in law so involved in you reproducing, again, specifically a boy?

If this "baby tube" is what I think it is, it's unlikely you'll conceive. But that's just a guess based on what you wrote, which wasn't clear at all.

What country are you in? I'm guessing India?