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    Dec 20, 2013, 08:45 AM
    She wants me to wait...
    So there is this girl. We've been bestfriends for about 6 months now and last month she just told me she is in love with me. I'm in love with her too, and that's great and all but the thing is, she wants me to wait for her. We both have some mental issues and we go to counseling for it. She told me that she doesn't want to date until were both better mentally. Thing is. I want to be with her so badly and I'm worried she'll find someone else by the time were both better. Or stop loving me... should I wait for her and focus on getting better myself. Or should I move on? I feel like her decision is very mature, but I over think stuff a lot and I'm just super worried she'll find someone else. What should I do?
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    Dec 20, 2013, 10:45 AM
    Well you should focus on getting better yourself whether you wait for her or not.
    Take the time to get better and see where things go from there.
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    Dec 20, 2013, 11:39 AM
    Stop being so super worried and just go with the flow. Focus on helping yourself and not the rewards. There is really no telling what will happen later, or how either of you will feel with a healthier perspective later down the road. Limit the love to just friends for a bit longer.

    No expectations of anything more. You cannot just wait as the process of being healthier has no definite date for completion does it?

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