[Muffin22]

We were having a long conversation he said who loves you then he said I do. That was his statement. Then a little while after that he said I just know that I have a crush on you. So does he love me or not by what he was saying?

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ly-772196.html

Same guy?

[Muffin22]

Yes

[talaniman]

The first thing you need to understand is all you have are words. There has been no real experience or interaction in person, just words. You are still two strangers far apart, who cannot learn each other in reality.

How will you ever believe the words without the actions? I just don't think you can learn or understand another with JUST words, and not actions. When words and action match, then you can understand, AND believe.

What is the distance between you two? When will that end? If there is no plan, that produces action, what's the point of this online word exchange? If you have been exchanging words for months and it produces nothing but high hopes and wishful thinking, what's the point?

Sorry, all I see is online flirt buddies. This tree has borne no fruit.

[joypulv]

There is not one single way anyone can know what someone is thinking or feeling who isn't here. Not to mention, you have never met this man. You could be dealing with anyone, anywhere, who is not at all what he claims. You just don't know. He could be disabled and confined to bed and using someone else's pictures and chatting with dozens of women. He could be a stalker or worse. He could be someone looking for women with money. YOU DON'T KNOW.

I apologize for being so heavy-handed. I worry about all the women who get taken online. Seen it a hundred times, here, on TV, everywhere.