[pornstar]

Recently my boyfriend told me that he wants to be with me but he thinks I'm way too good for him. How am I suppose to take this?:confused:

[JoeCanada76]

I do not know? What way did you take it? What was your first reaction. Obviously you did not take it well or you would not be here. Did you talk to your boyfriend about how that made you feel?

What is up with the name pornstar by the way?

[pornstar]

Let's see to answer your question, we have a wonderful sex life. Usually twice a day at the very least. We've been living together for a year and a half now. But here lately he's been acting weird. We used to do things together and have sex but now it seems like all we do is have sex. Don't get me wrong , I'm not complaining in that department but I miss the time we spent together- talking. He says he's just reached his comfort level and admits to taking me for granted. Then he turns around and does it again. He recently went out of town for the weekend and when he got back I thought he would want to spend the day with me but instead he's gone all the next day. When I complained about it he said that he doesn't have to answer to me and that he came home and that's all that matters. We have sex and he thinks that just solves everything. He doesn't feel that he should have to call and check in to let me know what's going on. He thinks that I'm just being nosey. I feel that is just common courtesy. What do you think?:(

[JoeCanada76]

Yes, Common courtesy. Sounds to me as if something is up. Especially if he can not simply let you know what he was doing, sounds like maybe he his hiding something.

Let me ask you a question. Do you bug him a lot. Do you phone lots, do you try to keep lots of tabs on him?

Sounds like he has a chip on his shoulder. When one person stops to communicate there is a problem somewhere. If both of you do not communicate then when communication lacks there becomes big problems.

You have tried talking to him. About him just thinking that your being nosey is a cop out. I think he is hiding something, did you ever tell him that is the impression you get when he says those things to you?

Yes, again common courtesy and if he can not give you common courtesy then you need to nip it in the bud. Tell him exactly how you feel, that you would like to talk to him. How you feel it that common courtesy is important and keeping the lines of communication open.

Also it is a two way street, if your asking him to do this but do not do that yourself then do not expect him to listen to you. Well even if you do he might not anyway. If he does not tell him it is a two way street and that you want him to show you the courtesy.

Joe