[montanawife]

My husband and I have occasionally watched porn, he likes it, sometimes I do. But recently he always wants to watch interracial, black men and white women only, and more mfm threesomes. The last one was "whites wives love black". Is this normal or should I read more into this?

[Oliver2011]

It's porn. Maybe he's bored with y'alls regular porn. What more would you read into this?

[CravenMorhead]

It's normal. He's probably just testing the limits of what you want to watch.

My porn collection is varied and includes all different ages (18-60+), ethnicities (Asian, Africian, Aboriginal, Caucasian, and everything in between), number of partners (solo-orgy), some fetishes (Midget golden shower/BSDM), varying levels of professionalism (Amateur to professional), Some furry stuff (Don't judge), and all sorts of strange stuff. Porn bloopers, not really arousing but f**king funny. No pun intended.

If you really want to, you could read into it. If you do a harsh dissection of this, you can pick something out. Have you heard of Cuckolding? It is a fetish where the man is cuckolded and knows about it. More often then not he is in the room when this occurs. Because this turns him on. There has also been a trend of being Cuckolded by a black man. The BBC (Big Black Rooster). Read up on this fetish, Cuckolding and also look up the Queen of Spades as this relates to Cuckolding.

Now a Cigar might just be a cigar and he wants to expand what you too can watch together. The only way you can know for sure is to talk to him. Ask him about it. Clear communication, especially in the bedroom, is important. After all if you can't talk to your partner about sex and his fantasies, but would rather ask a bunch of strangers on a internet help forum, you shouldn't really be having it.

Good Luck.

[Fr_Chuck]

Do you always eat the same meal every day ? For every meal ? NO, porn is about like that, it is not real, people do not really have sex like that normally, so yes, all sorts, now he may have some other fantisies, most men have all types, most never talk about them, some do, and wives say NO, that is just that

[smoothy]

Don't waste time looking "reading into it" for something that's not there.

It's a porn movie... nothing more... its a visual diversion.

[nameless1243]

Why do you ask? When you two watched other kinds of porn did you ask what was behind him wanting to watch that other kind of porn? My point is that the thing that is different may not be what he is doing, but rather the thing that is different may be what you are doing. It's as though you are hoping there is something behind him wanting you to watch interracial porn? Do you want to try sex with a black man?

Be careful for your marriage. That is my advice.