[cassiemc12]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and I love him with all my heart but we really seem to be arguing a lot lately. I have lied to my boyfriend in the past and I confessed about it recently. I have lied to him again and I confessed about it. I totally understand why he doesn't trust me.

My boyfriend always brings up things from the past things I did before I even met him and he makes me feel awful about them, when he ask me these questions and I tell him he gets upset with me and says they're too vague. He expects me to remember everything that went down in my past even my though process. My past seems to be the only thing we argue about. Every time we argue I feel like I'm being put on trial and being interrogated I really don't know what to do. I hate arguing with him. I just want him to stop worrying about the past. I feel like our relationship won't go anywhere if he keeps looking in the past. What should I do?

[Wondergirl]

No, your relationship won't go anywhere as long as he is stuck in your past before you two even met. And that time period is none of his business, so stop telling him stuff. NOW is what is important, as is the FUTURE.

[talaniman]

You call this love? Tell him to mind his own business. Why are you feeding this fool more ammo to use against you as his revenge for you lying... TWICE.

[smearcase]

Does alcohol or drugs have any involvement in these inquiries? Just wondering what the real root of the problem might be.